You know a lot of people always claim that they would never compare their present relationships to any of their old. But it happens. It is bound to happen ner, especially when you enter into a new realtionship with the hopes of something better than the "before one" even if the earlier one was great and all that but for some weird incomprehensible reason you guys broke up and now you are with a new person, a new realtionship you've got to work on, a new love and friendship to cherish, celebrate and nuture and a whole bag full of new memories to collect. And then things arent better exactly cos they arent the same, (obviously cos there is a totally different person involved) but still you know. So now what? how to get over this comparing phase? How not to compare? You could try and treat them as they are supposed to be treated. i.e. two entirely different situations, realtionships, people. etc. but then thats easier said than done.
But it seems to me that its about respecting the person you are going out with and understanding their individuality rather than figuring out whats different in this puzzle from the old one, whats missing? whats better?
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