Relationships

You know a lot of people always claim that they would never compare their present relationships to any of their old. But it happens. It is bound to happen ner, especially when you enter into a new realtionship with the hopes of something better than the "before one" even if the earlier one was great and all that but for some weird incomprehensible reason you guys broke up and now you are with a new person, a new realtionship you've got to work on, a new love and friendship to cherish, celebrate and nuture and a whole bag full of new memories to collect. And then things arent better exactly cos they arent the same, (obviously cos there is a totally different person involved) but still you know. So now what? how to get over this comparing phase? How not to compare? You could try and treat them as they are supposed to be treated. i.e. two entirely different situations, realtionships, people. etc. but then thats easier said than done.
But it seems to me that its about respecting the person you are going out with and understanding their individuality rather than figuring out whats different in this puzzle from the old one, whats missing? whats better?

The entire sum of existence is the magic of being needed by just one person....

Well Ashara is over and me back at work. Its been such an amazing experience and so much happened. So much to tell, so much to remeber and i have learnt so much. We had these sessions called, "Waaz Talaqqi" where Bhai Sahebs came and discussed what Moula's bayaan was all about. and we get to put forth whatever questions we have about the waaz an dbest part is they are answered! it was amazing. My entire Ashara experience has been amazing. And better yet is that it still aint over :) Cos Moula is still in Colombo and infact tomorrow for like the first time ever Moula is holding a Sabak. and then there is going to be Misaaq.
Did I mention this, Dad came. Just about 2 weeks ago. I got to do Qadambosi and believe it or not my sis did Qadambosi thrice! How anyone can be so lucky is beyond me.
I am feeling really restless right now... am bursting with stories but have to get back to work or i'll be here till tomorrow morning. I'll be back though :D