Long weekend ahead, 5 days! and nothing to do. Nothing at all. This is pathetic. Need to make plans but cant think of anything at all. Could catch up movies and books. Could also make a concious effort to learn to cook something. But nothing seems inviting right now. Could also go away but thats what we've planned for next week. Hmmmn awful dilemma.

Relationships — of all kinds — are like sand held in your hand. Held loosely, with an open hand the sand remains where it is. The minute you close your hand and squeeze tightly to hold on, the sand trickles through your fingers. You may hold onto some of it, but mostly it will be spilled. A relationships is like that. Held loosely, with respect and freedom for the other person, it is likely to remain intact. But hold too tightly, too possessively, and the relationship slips away and is lost.
- Kahlil Jamison

I dont agree with it this entirely but I put it up cos I know somebody who follows it like a religion.